I honestly don't know who knows what in that circle. The friend she's staying with apparently knows everything (from what the W has told me), but the party itself is being put on by that friends' parents, who I'm not sure understand what's going on, other than the OM and I can't be in the same place at the same time. I suspect they have their ideas as to why, but I don't know if the W's friend has told her parents what she knows either.
I can't for sure say that they are OK with adultery if they don't know it's going on, but at the same time, they all know him and have never met me. I'm the outsider, it's felt that way since I've been back, and as I've said in a previous post, I don't have a social circle of my own to go to right now. Everybody I know is scattered to the four winds taking their R&R as well.
