Inside my chrysalis 3

[labug]

for sure next time I am going to look for someone who understands this and is willing to stick around and work on issues when things are tough.

It would be great if we all knew what we would face in the future and had the same definition of tough, wouldn't it? Some people in abusive R or in R with active addictions think they're just sticking it out through the bad patches when in fact, they should be getting the he!! out.

We think we've faced the toughest thing but there may in fact be things far tougher. All we can do is accept that life is full of toughchallenges and be prepared to meet them to the best of our abilities. Let go of blame and shame and work on us. We can come out the winners in this.

And sometimes, a M is not to be saved.