Cathy, I have to say that you have gotten a lot of good advice here! Isn't the support here wonderful?!
My H ran back in the tunnel and it felt like we were going backwards. My H says one thing but his actions speak a whole new language!
They all go through this stage, and it isn't pretty for them or us. Only you know the path you want to take. We are here whenever you need us!
Just step back and drop the rope. And keep moving forward. Detach, but be there if your H needs a shoulder~be a friend. I think you are the only and best friend he has right now.
