I think all of us try to make sense of things. Unfortunately there is no sense to be found in the brain of a WS. Trying to reason with them is going down a cheeseless tunnel, as MWD says.
Starsky's advice is spot on.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R