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I don't think that would go well for me...physically or emotionally.

This touches a nerve. At one point in my ordeal, my WAW's enabling girlfriend (who knows about W's A and helped her cover for it) talked my W into reporting something that resulted in my being arrested. (charges later dismissed)

While I would never stoop so low as to do anything like that to my W in retaliation, her friend now occupies a very special place in my heart.

Don't go looking for trouble, but if I were so much as touched, I'd have 911 all over that party in a heartbeat. Thugs are thugs whether they are besties of your W's OM or not. There is some crap you just don't have to put up with.