Standing tall. Trying to rekindle.

[labug]

It's hard though, because at some point I'd like her to understand that none of my stupid actions would've taken place had she not initiated things. There would never have been a rebound EA, because I've never thought about being with other women, except when I thought that was my inevitable future.

2x4 alert!! I get what you're saying here, I really do. But we all have choices and when you felt the need to start an EA with another woman what other choices did you have that you didn't make? And why didn't you make them?

This is a slippery slope my friend, very slippery.

But it may be useful in helping yo see why your W has made the choices she has.