claire,

ganb8te is right. You do not say anything to your H about it because he will perceive it as guilting. My S5 is always making comments about things related to where is mommy or when will I come stay with him at mommys or when will mommy come stay with him at my place. All you can do is answer the best you can to your kids.

If your D is asking you these things, odds are she is probably asking the same to your H.

Good luck!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16