Alright, I need some input from peoples' BS detectors on this one:
So the W and I had plans to go to a party next weekend, a big event put on by her friend's family. She and the OM were originally scheduled to bartend for it. W calls me just now and says that I probably shouldn't go to it anymore, because a lot of the people putting on the event are not happy that I have put up the boundary of me and the OM not being in the same place.
A: "Well, I'm sorry they feel that way. I haven't decided yet whether or not I want to go, but I can assure you my decision will have NOTHING to do what these people think about my personal business. But thanks for letting me know."