Here are the mistakes I made and I don't want to see you make....

Telling her she doesn't have to move, she knows that and SHE is the one who wants to. This is huge pursuit.

Comforting her...... when she is upset validate her feelings by saying something like "I know this situation is hard on everyone"

Talking about OM......... (I will add more later, my only "screen time" is when Lilly is nursing and she is done now)


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction