Thank you, nit84. You're very kind. My WW moved out at the end of May. I've seen her three times since then. She never even had the decency to discuss the D with me. I knew she was thinking about it, but at least as an adult she could have sat down with me to discuss how we would approach it.
I'm working on things, too, albeit slowly. I'm getting more involved in church and learning how to cook. These are things I believe would improve our marriage. Like you say, however, it's up to her. I can't control her thoughts.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...