But also remember to improve yourself for YOURSELF and nobody else.
If you concentrate on you, there won't be much time to worry about your W and whether or not she is Morally correct.
In her mind she is morally correct and that is her right and her feelings. Do not judge her. At some point she may feel different, not necessarily about the M, but about how she is living her life.
Life is full of choices some good and some bad but there are consequences to each choice we make and we must live with them.
We as LBS cannot and should not try to explain or force our beliefs upon our WAS it will lead to heartache and we have already experienced enough of that!
I have been at this DBing for 15 months, I am not always doing the best job but I am working on myself to become a better person for me. I will be fine no matter what and so will you.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014