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The most mature twin had the hardest time, she cried and said over and over "Mommy you said this would never happen." So tough to see.


Oh, so sad! And look how she called out her mom. I'm so sorry about that, but glad that you all got through it okay.

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Am quite familiar with the emotional wipeout from D filing. Took me about 2 weeks to get my feet back under me. Took another two to stop complaining in my internal monologue.


That's about the timeline I had, same as Shakespr. Even though I thought I was detached, it was so very hard.

HopeTex, keep holding on to the optimism for the future. When I felt especially low, I would think of the things I'd be able to do that Mr. Gritty never wanted to do. Planning for the future is big.


M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R