Originally Posted By: Shakspr
Yet she makes snide comments like "Well, you seem to be having fun with all your FRIENDS." (Tone was important on that one.) I'm just too verbal - I have to respond. But I don't get angry anymore. Just "you don't expect me to sit around here and mope, do you?"


Mr. Gritty keeps making comments about my GALing (when he finds out about it) like, "Nobody is having me to dinner!" Today he told me our S told him I was doing watersports. He said, "I never got to do watersports!" Like it's totally unfair.

It sounds like she is noticing the changes in you and "the upper hand" has shifted a bit.

Shakespr, my sitch has changed for the better. I feel bad for my friends still in the trenches, and very concerned that I may be in the trenches with you all yet again. You never know what will happen. I'm trying to be cautious, still trying to detach.

I'm glad you're doing better, a little bit every day. I know it's helping your sitch even though that W of yours is a fool.


M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R