I envy the two-way nature of you situation. I understand it is still very trying, but I'm still driving on one-way streets over here. And sometimes I go the wrong way.
I say just keep being loving and patient. Great work so far!
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.