Thanks wet- I read a comment by one of the vets in another thread to the effect that whatever she is doing now is no worse than what she's already done, so there's no need to snoop. That's enough to prevent me from snooping so far.
I am however wondering if the dating site thing is her reaction to me GALing, but that would be mind reading so I'm trying not too much to think about that either. I just can't wrap my head around pleasant, nice enjoyable times together and her actions. Even if she's written us off in her mind why not just pull the trigger and ask for the D? Don't get the point of this, but I'm not sure she does, either.


Me: 45 W:43
M: 15, T:21
2 Kids- S-14, D-12
A Started: 10/2013
Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014
A changing, not ending
Start DB'ing 9/2014
Same house, same bed