Interesting food for thought FY- I guess I feel like it's something I " should" be doing ( the asking about him part at least- the inviting I didn't do initially but he seemed hurt so I told him he was welcome to hang out also). He asks about me and he just seems so emotional I want to give him an opportunity to talk or share if he needs to. There are a lot of awkward, silent, not much to say moments too and sometimes I fill them with those kinds of check-ins. I'll have to try and step back and see if it is making things worse or better. Right now it seems he is just incredibly restless and unhappy- my people pleaser fix it senses are on overdrive and I have to consciously redirect myself away from doing anything about it much of the time. I know this is his journey to take.
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
