Alright, I need some input from peoples' BS detectors on this one:

So the W and I had plans to go to a party next weekend, a big event put on by her friend's family. She and the OM were originally scheduled to bartend for it. W calls me just now and says that I probably shouldn't go to it anymore, because a lot of the people putting on the event are not happy that I have put up the boundary of me and the OM not being in the same place. W says that the OM has backed out regardless of if I go or not, so the hosts aren't happy that they're down to one bartender either. W says that the OM won't be anywhere she is for fear that I will show up and try to fight him.

So, W says finally that her friend suggested that neither I nor the OM go to the event, since I wouldn't know anybody (and I can't fill in to bartend), and he doesn't want to run into me.

Scale of 1 to 10, where 10 is total BS - she's telling me to stay home so she can be with the OM, what say you internet?