newbie need help needs help part 4

[pilot]

Sorry to hear that. But...you were kissing this morning? You left out the positive story and focused on the negative. It sounds like things were fine this morning, and then something triggered. Seemingly on your decision to NOT take the kids to the fair. It is very likely your W had told the kids they were going to go, and when you said you did not want to take them so late, she got agitated and took them herself. Not saying you were at fault, but what about that interaction could be a trigger? Were you typically uncompromising or controlling on issues like this in the past? Not meaning to use harsh adjectives, but what about that conversation could have been an unpleasant experience for your W?

Think on it a bit... Maybe that will help prevent future negative interactions like this...