Since xh moved out, we've had exactly one conversation. Since that time, I've always been pleasant. I made a decision that I would treat him like any other friendly acquaintance. I bake cookies and if you are in my house, I will offer you one. He told me after BD that he wished I had an affair while we were m (what???) and all kinds of crazy stuff. Nothing indicates he thinks about me, ever thought about me, has ever questioned his decision or anything of the sort. However, (and this is mind reading) I would be wiling to bet my booty that he hasn't thought that (gasp) I might consider a R with someone in the future. Xh has a tendency to think no further than the top of his nose. Oh well:-)
I've been furiously making the house look like one of those options on House Hunters. If only I could blindfold everyone coming in for a look see,,,
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer