I guess what I'm going to have to figure out is, do I continue doing all the stuff that W and I do together (and all of the stuff that I do *for* her) now that she says she's leaving? She seems to have this vision that despite the bomb she just dropped, we will still just kind of carry on as normal...hanging out as friends. Frankly, I'm not sure if doing that is going to help or hurt my cause. It would almost be easier to know how to proceed if she seemed sick of me and didn't want me around. But as it is she still kind of acts like I'm her best friend.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
