Well, despite fulfilling all of MrBond's requirements for piecing, it seems I was too confident about the state of my marriage. I have been sticking to DBing and GAL, but over the last couple of months W has been flip-flopping back and forth over where she stands and what her feelings are. She went from telling me she was confident we were on the path to a new and better marriage and wanting to see a marriage counselor to help ensure we would achieve that goal, to telling me that she no longer thought her resentful feelings about the past would change and she was no longer willing to put forth the effort to see if they would.
It's kind of weird though because the whole time she has still been wanting me to rub and massage her after work, and we have still been hanging out and doing stuff together. It's just very strange to me.
At any rate, she just told me about an hour ago that she's going to move into her parents house next Monday. I guess the plan for the time being is for the kids to stay in our house with me.
Not really sure on how to proceed as far as demeanor toward W. I mean, I'm being pleasant enough with her... But I'm guessing now just keep all interaction short and sweet? This all just so bizarre to me. She came home from her vacation with the kids all full of hope and promise about the future, and now she has moved in the complete opposite direction...but is still kind of acting like she didn't just drop another bomb with me. I'm in the bedroom and she just came in from the living room and asked if I would watch a movie with her and rub her shoulders...WTF???
Last edited by stumps; 09/14/1410:11 PM.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
