The one negative thing that I thought when I read what you wrote is yes, a lot of relationships have troubles and marriage takes work. But then why can't our foolish WASes see that instead of walking away we could work on our issues?
I also read some statistics the other day about infidelity and how it is very very common and something like 2/3 of couples that face adultery get past it and stay together. I could be wrong about the stat, but it was an interesting article.
My step mom once told me that the most important thing to making a relationship last is that both people are willing to work.
If things don't work out with my H, for sure next time I am going to look for someone who understands this and is willing to stick around and work on issues when things are tough.