My parents used to say, "You don't know what goes on behind closed doors." It's so interesting to me that when I think about other Rs in my social circles-- there is a lot of dysfunction. A lot of controlling W's, couples that are co-parenting but seem emotionally detached. I've finally realized that "everyone has their Sh!t". EVERYONE. My friend who seems so totally grounded and emotionally stable and has all her sh!t together? Well, suffice it to say that she's had her share of problems and has gotten plenty of professional help for that.
That must have been so nice to have that validation from your friend-- you are the spouse only a fool would leave!
