Hi Bart, yeah earlier in my separation my W pulled the same crazy thing of telling me she "loved" me, while also being on the dating sites. I got so frustrated, I forbade her from saying that she loved me, and I would send her definitions of what love reallyyyy means, being in our actions toward the other person. I did get her stop telling me that she loved me though. Fat lotta good that's done me. Keep your chin and emotions up.