Yep. I'm in that same "seems hopeless" place, maybe I'll go into the success stories, too.

Hang in there, we're all here to support you. 11th hour miracles DO happen!

BF:40 M:33
SD: 12
T: 8, never married, no kids together
BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try".
PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".