Married now living seperatly

[FunDad]

So yesterday I dropped by to help with a discipline issue. They are still getting complaints in their new housing complex. While there she asked me to remove a spider from the back porch which is a big deal cause that's her happy place. I took the nice spider to my house (a big garden spider). Today, she asked if I'd bring donuts this morning when picking up kids for church, and I declined. Literal cake eating not allowed. She was upset that she had to get out this morning to buy her own.