Had a great guy's weekend nice and relaxing. I called WAW yesterday after being gone for more than two days and ask to face time with S3 .5. She said sure and immediately got him connected. She stood there with him and help him stay in frame. She coached him on some things to tell me about so that the conversation would flow better. I really made no effort to speak with her. However, once he was done talking I asked to speak to her and she said she would call me right back on the phone. She called and with a smile and her voice said I hope you're having fun. I replied yes I'm having a lot of fun. I was vague into the point. She asked if I had heard anything on the homes I had looked at. My answer was not much and I found another home to look at. She knew the address of the home I wanted to look at. I laughed and said yes that's the one. She followed up with well you know I like to look at real estate and I saw that one. I'm so confused right now. Lost. Lonely. Sad. Confused. I feel I have no sense of direction at this point. Yes I can keep doing what I'm doing, however, I am not sure what's best anymore. Any input would be helpful.
She calls as I'm driving home and asked how far away I am I know she's had a rough few days with S3 .5. I also know that this is what's coming for her and I think she sees it. I am not sure I can be there for her as a friend once I move out. I will help parent but only when it's my turn. She cannot have her cake and eat it too. She's getting what she wants and is going to have her own time when she doesn't have S3 .5. I really wonder how long she will enjoy her quiet and serenity before she realizes what she's done.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
