Update
Dropped the W at her mums with all she owns .
Tried and was successful at not getting upset .

Just before she left I told her the door would always be open if she ever wanted to return home . Was that a mistake ?

Atleast it will be easier to detach when she isn't in the house something that was going ok until she returned 2 weeks ago for her trial .


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .