So, during last Monday's tide-turning conversation with H, he said he had seen a counselor but had stopped. When I asked why, he said he didn't think it was helping, and that he needed to find someone who could delve deeper to help him identify what his issues really are. I've recently heard about a local psychologist who has a great reputation and was highly recommended, by more than one person I know.
Question: Is it 'pursuing' if I forward this person's contact information to H? Would I be 'helping' him (and I shouldn't)? Do I just let him find his own counselor? He does really seem to want to find help but doesn't know where to turn. I would do this for a friend, but what are some opinions out there, fellow DB'ers?
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
