She is now friendly, somewhat affectionate, considerate, sending me random texts, letting me know where she is (even sending pictures as proof).
This could all be a better devised cover - I don't know. I would love to just trust everything, but how do I know?
It seems still like limbo, but at least a more pleasant limbo.
I use the word dubious often in my posts. I am still dubious - I don't know what she really wants or where she is in the whole big picture without asking. I haven't done too well reading her mind, her actions toward me indicate one thing, but the fact that she isn't wearing her ring or wanting anything more than a hug and kiss is a big indicator that she is not all in.
--I don't think she will put her ring back on until she's ready --I don't think she will want to be sexual with me again while she's interested or (having sex with) someone else. (at least that's how it's been so far this year).
Uturn, I agree you cannot ask these questions. No matter how much you want answers, understand that you're unlikely to get a truthful response, and even if you did the answers aren't really going to change anything. Don't believe anything she says!
No doubt the limbo continues and as our sitchs are very similar my bet is the lack of any real affection is all the proof you need that she is not all in. If however she is turning a corner or starting to think about the R (rather than cake eating) you don't want to blow it by pursuing or being to eager- keep doing what you are doing and watch carefully.
Me: 45 W:43 M: 15, T:21 2 Kids- S-14, D-12 A Started: 10/2013 Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014 A changing, not ending Start DB'ing 9/2014 Same house, same bed
