I have lots to do to keep me busy, and I have to get it done, but I also have to get in some QT with football!
Real quick, something I thought about from the past two days. Friday d had a game. I sat with my d's former softball coach. We talked through the whole game. We are friends (he is married and I am friends with his wife too, but talk to him more. His wife was there, but sitting in a different location. They never sit together- I don't ask...) Anyway, in the past, that would have made xh very upset. He was very insecure. XH sat down a ways, and was out of there very quickly. Whatever.
Saturday, when bil and xh came back to the 2nd volleyball game, I was sitting with the same friend. And due to limited seating and bil, they sat next to my friend. About 30 seconds after they sat down, my friend left. He had to go see his other d at a different gym, but the timing was funny (and it was probably to tense then for anyone!)
Saturday at football. About halfway through the game, one of my son's friend from another town and his dad came and sat with me. He is d and xh knows that. XH does not really know this guy, just knows who he is. But it was funny that they were there and sat with me. Almost looks like I invited them or something (since they don't even live here).
XH probably didn't notice, I am sure he doesn't care. But, just knowing how those things used to bother him, I wonder if deep down it still does? Ehh... whatever....
Sooooooo.... Update....
I was told by someone xh confided in that he was talking about how I really laid into him this week. And that he said he thinks he has hit rock bottom.
Things that make you go hmmmm........
What will he do from here? Try to reach out to kids is my thought. I know that is what is really messing him up. He THOUGHT he had it figured out.
