Have you read DB or DR yet? You can't base everything off on what you see on this Forum. Can you give us more detail on your M? The more information you can give and be impartial, the better.
Be honest.
For the last few years we have both drifted appart due to both of us being so busy with work and running our daughter around. She got a new job and this made her realise how much she was missing in life , she made new friends and started going out drinking and partying with them and she enjoyed the new life style and then started thinking about being single again . Few months ago one of her work colleagues introduced her to the man she has been having an A with and that's when the wheels really fell of . Not sure it matters but this friend at work has had loads of affairs at work and there own life is a real mess also.
So I find myself waiting for her to leave today with no hope
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
