It seems my posts are taking a while to be moderated, so these will probably all come through together, but anyway here is todays update..

Had a good day today.. Just cleaning the place and stuff, but no bad feelings or anything.. Had a real good chat to the kids this evening as well which was good..

Got thrown a bit of a nice curve ball by the W as well.. She has starting talking about R and M albeit in a roundabout way.. I'm not getting my hopes up, or looking too much in to it but we were talking about a small issue with a certain family member, and she mentioned about "if we get back together" in the line of conversation..

I felt like this was a great step forward in our chats, as it has gone from pretty much "it's not going to happen", to "if we get back together".. I let her do all of the talking about R and M, which ended up being about 15 minutes worth.. I didn't come across in any of the wrong ways during the chat, and only spoke about M when I agreed with a couple of points she made regarding the issue..

Like I said, I'm not getting my hopes up massively, or looking too much in to it, but it would have to be agreed that it is a good step in the right direction..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..