There's a concept that my wife and I subscrribe to wholeheartedly when doing anything new...

"Fake it 'till you make it"

Which means that a repetitive motion will become instict. She wants the list to see the things that she can put into a reprotoire that will eventually become natural. At least that's what I'm hoping. If it doesn't work...then I'm going to have to re-adjust my plan.