So so happy for you ss. It really sounds like you needed a day like today. You did a great job listening and validating. And do not worry about breaking DB rules by temp checking. Remember, they are guidelines. Everyone is different. Sometimes I think we all become slaves to the rules at the expense of our own situations.

At any rate, I just wanted to let you know your day put a smile on my face.

Keep it up!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16