ATS- I'm excited for you and your weekend away!!!

I want for you to be hopeful- but don't necessarily think this is "all or nothing". I've had many situations where H wanted to talk (though not a weekend away so who knows if similar) where he is still very torn. He wants to talk, then depending on the mood he is in he thinks there is hope or we just need to D. I've learned to be prepared for anything and remember the mantra " believe nothing they say and half of what they do".

I hope I'm not coming across negative- as I don't mean to be. This could be a very good movement forward in your sitch. But if it's not, it still doesn't predict the outcome. They flip flop constantly due to the pain, and from what you've put on here it is still early in his MLC.

No matter how the weekend goes, I hope you enjoy your time, and I'm rooting for you. God is with you too- what is supposed to happen will. I keep telling myself that for my sitch too.


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown