Hey Bright. Sorry you are still dealing with some of this. It is so frustrating to see how disrespectful they can be to us for no reason. He is one mixed up guy (one of many...).
Is there anyway you could change his address to the one you are fwd it to? Or ask him to? That is such a pain to always have to do that. Maybe tell him to or you will mark, "return to sender." It is not fair for him to expect you to continue to do that for him.
Honestly, it sounds like he just doesn't care much about the mail. If he is depressed, it is probably one of his biggest concerns. I believe when you feel so lost and confused, you tend not to worry much about things. You are so unfocused, and think that as long as it is not imminent or dire, you don't really bother until you really need to.
I'm sorry you are still struggling with some thing. I feel like I will for awhile, too. I get better, but then I cycle back. It is a long haul for us lbsers, that's for sure. I think there a different factor that come into play as to how we move along in this. You will get there, Bright. Find a way to do it without focus on him. You got this. Just like AJ told me, it is a matter of perception. I am going to keep practicing this. I am trying to take myself out of things and look at if from an outside perspective. Easy for me to say this after coming off (or during??) quite an emotional week where I've been quite.... reactive. But, I try to change my perception- it gets me grounded quicker. I am hoping it moves me right along. Chin up, Bright!
