Important disclaimer: Starsky, before you (and your formerly-pleasing-sorta-codependent-self) try to use the word "hijack" right now while this topic is being discussed, and people are commenting to you on this thread, I just want you to know that if you say such a thing, I will hunt you down and beat you.
Accept that you have changed the lives of countless strangers for the better. And accept they want to do the very least they (we) can in return, and that is to let you know we hold you in our thoughts while you are hurting.
Now, everyone can carry on ...
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014