Isn't your H a QT person? I can see how his love tank can be filled up that way with "garage dates"... etc.
Starsky...how are you holding up with the "talk" to your W about your GD?
It ended up being late this afternoon. Hurting REAL bad here ladies, no hiding it. She can't stop sobbing and neither can I. Empty the dishwasher and I see her little Dora forks and spoons in the drawer. Go upstairs and I see her toys. I ache.