Newbie Error- LRT too Soon- help!

[twinmom]

Bart I would ask some of the vets here for help on the long term questions. My situation was a little complicated, but for Easter I hosted my family and his family (as usual) and H was invited (he was living with OW) but he didn't show up. I made the holiday the same for the kids as every other holiday except their dad wasn't here. I couldn't control that.