No, don't bring it up. If she directly asks you to help her you can cross that bridge but if she doesn't say anything pretend you forgot.

You don't want a divorce don't do anything to help her destroy the marriage. If she wants it let her do the heavy lifting (literally)


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction