He's patronizing!!! And I hate it when people are patronizing!!
He's treating you like a child ... like he's Big Daddy and you just need to mind your pretty little business in the house and "trust him."
Trust he's not looking at porn.
Trust he's not talking to OW on his phone.
Trust he isn't spending family money on OW or strippers during the week.
Oh wait! That's right! Never mind! That's not family money. That's HIS money and you have no business knowing how he spends it.
You know, because he's the Big Daddy and he puts you up in his house and pays for your macaroni and cheese and table scraps while he eats God-knows-what because he keeps you in the dark about family finances.
Ugh!
Y'all are supposed to be PARTNERS. TEAMMATES.
He's not your daddy!
Demand a partner. Don't you settle for less, lil mama.
Something tells me, based only on what permeates from underneath your posts (your character), that if H isn't willing to step up and treat you like the queen you are, there'll be a LINE of men who WILL.
Sending you strong fist bumps.
I believe in you.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
