To Pursue or Not

[Arcola]

So to add to my previous post W has started moving in the rental slowly but surely. She did some moving Saturday. OM helped her. The news got indirectly broke to D8. D8 appears uneasy with it I can tell. I haven't talked to D8 to deeply about it with W or alone, but according to W D8 only concern is if I can be over for dinner sometimes and W over for dinner sometimes.

So in a week ago in an earlier post I told wife I'd help her with moving. I had mixed feelings then, but they are even stronger now that she is actually moving. I will say I refuse to help if OM is around on the day(s) I help. So I need some advice, since I gave my word last week that I'd help, do I stick to it or not?