Twinmom, you are great! Thanks so much- while I'm not the social butterfly I am the cook, and a damn good one according to all our friends so this should be my chance to shine on all points. Thanks for all the sage advice. I guess that means we keep planning the long term family stuff too? Just don't want to send mixed messages as I've already given the "you need to end the A and work on our R, but I'm not going to wait for ever" speech.

Last edited by Bart42; 09/13/14 10:39 PM.
Me: 45 W:43
M: 15, T:21
2 Kids- S-14, D-12
A Started: 10/2013
Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014
A changing, not ending
Start DB'ing 9/2014
Same house, same bed