Here is a book that I think is the perfect users guide to the HD man. This book is written to help women understand MEN. Women think they understand men, but they usually have no real clue as to the TRUE importance of sex to a mans EMOTIONAL well being. That is, until they read this book. I could not find anything in this book that did NOT fit my personality.
Read it first before giving to the wife. It may be to intense to give a very LD women until they make some strides forward. It may scare them too much!
I have read both books, and I intend on reading the latter book again to help me understand women better. Funny how the book for understaning women is about 4x the sixe of the book to understand men!!! Us guys have to learn about EVERYTHING, while the women only need to learn that it really is all about sex to men (at least the HD type)!!