So, are there really men who WANT a real relationship with a woman that involves more than smoking grass and getting drunk? Like...maybe...just maybe...there's a guy out there who may enjoy my company and would actually look forward to spending time with me???? Could it be???
Yesss! YES! There are plenty of good men out there waiting to be scooped up. It is all on you to make the right choice.
I come from a family of 4 sisters.
The oldest and I are a lot like...careful and cautious when dating.
The youngest is happily married and has a rock solid family life with her 3 kids.
The second sister (I'm #3 in order) goes out with losers all the time. It has always been that way since she's been a little girl. We are all raised by the same Mom. Nothing earth shattering here.
Yet this second sister is now on her third divorce. I think she's attracted to broken men because she likes the challenge of "fixing" them.
At one point, she dated this guy we all LIKED a lot and hoped she'd marry. What happened? She dumped him because she didn't feel "in love" with him. Gee whiz!!! Say what?!! This guy was in finance, had a good solid family and had good long-term goals.
Nope. My #2 sister goes for the losers/bad boys.
She's going 50 soon. Go figure.
Don't let "broken men" get near you, Heather. You deserve nothing but the best! They are plenty of good men out there. Don't settle for second best.