Quote: It's in her nightstand drawer. It's been there 2 nights now...unread. Oh man I wish she would read it.
You gave her the list, now back off and don't hound her. She'll read it (if she hasn't already!) - understand this... just because it appears that she hasn't read it does not mean she hasn't!
Give her some time and enjoy the baby steps she makes. Lovingly encourage her and appreciate her efforts.