In doing my work & working on me, I have tried not to gloss over the marriage problems prior to separation. And my contributions to the downfall. So if things were that bad in his eyes & he really could not take anymore, should he be faulted for the way he handled or coped with situation by running away?
Is it common for a WAS not to want to discuss things that happened during separation? My H does not feel he had an affair because we were separated. I'm really not interested in details during S. Is it important to discuss what happened during S? This is why I'm unsure how hard to push on the phone transparency. The relationship/friendship with OW started after BD. And I'm not sure he or I can even access phone records because it is his company cell thru corporate account. Anyone have any ideas to work around that?
H:40 Me:35 D5 S4 S3 months Married 8 years Together 17 years BD: 5/23/2014
