OW (or whatever she is now) texted again for a play date. I thought I had been very clear that I was not getting together again. Later that night I over heard her bad mouthing me and egging h on in this ridiculous lie he made up about me kicking him

I didn't respond to her texts and blocked her number. I am 43. I am not getting dragged into whatever game they are playing.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15