Very similar to my situation but my W is just about to leave .
She kept telling me that she will only see the OM at work and that he will only say hello to her .
It's so hard when they work together and you have got to try and trust them .
Problem my W has she isn't a very good liar and almost raises a flag when she has been up to no good .

And been having to put up with the whole being protective about the phone it never leaves her pocket or hand .

I suppose though you need to agree to what your happy with and if you do think it's about the money then you will always think that .


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .